As always heard the saying just always think positive when you are in bad circumstances. They say, always think positively so that good is coming to your way, but really? in my experience, it's very hard to do man, shoot, life is so hard! How's it is very easy to tell someone that you know na, they can easily coop the hard situation that they are facing, eh? Very easy to say but so hard to do, and impossible for us as a human being to commit, nonetheless, we are just a human we are not perfect!
Yes indeed.
But however, lately! my anxiety disorder attacked and it was so terrible feelings, migraine, pain chest, back pain, and neck, all those pain are just from those negative energy that I didn't deal with appropriately. So I found myself a messed and I  don't see my old self anymore. So I decided to change everything my mindset to always think positively even though sometimes people around you are delivering those negative energies.

With God almighty's help, I know I can do this. I've started to just ignore those people who are giving a negative force surround me, ignored those people who don't accept me for who I am, ignored those people that they think they are so smart and I don't because they are the type of people who don't deserve my worries. Ignored them if they are not happy with me nor to have me in their lives because you're a nut nor crazy person, who cares! I'm just a human being just like others have.
God's love and comfort
are my strengths.
Whatever reason it might be, I will continue to fight and I know God is with me, I will stand up for myself if I have to, I will just acknowledge it, that those kind of people are just probably not happy with themselves and throws out their frustration on you because of just their being! 

I will continue to just let those negative thoughts impact on the hard wall and not on to me, even the narrow road will also change to a straight road, I know it will change my life with God who is always there for me nor for everyone who believes in him and have faith more than fears. I believe thinking positive ( I know it's not so easy) but will be amended for a better! I need to keep staying on the positive sides of everyone's benefits. So much emotion towards negative force can lead to stress and depression, sorrows, sadness, loneliness, you name them. Not so fun at all, just reject whatever unfavorable you may hear from others and goon with your day. 

How can I Stay away from negative force? If that's your question, well above are the few tips that I have and have used in my life to keep stay away from it but here are some more I've done. 🙂 

  1. Blogging- yes, this is one of the reasons why I stayed in positive energy, blogging. One of my happiness to resist the negative thought and emotion also helps me so much to realize the facts.
  2. Gardening- gardening reminds me of my parents, they give me the strength to go on with my life and will always remain in my life, the gratitude for what I have not for myself but for my children. 
  3. Looking back- remembering the good memories we possess, bring them along with you to move forward and the consequence is the encouragement to think about the possibility of happiness and positive direction in your life. 
  4. Be grateful- for the one who works so hard for the family and have fun and just ignore the negatives side. Remember, that God Almighty is the number one you are grateful for. Just remember, everything you do to keep staying in the positive side is worth it, there are also people out there will understand you and accept you for who you are and just think those people whom you love and let them guide what inside your heart, use them as your inspiration. 
  5. Don't lose dreams & hopes in one stupid thing and don't let anyone take you apart! Be strong and remember that you have God's in your heart and believe that he is always with you, and motivate yourself that you can conquer everything with God and soon will be okay.  
"It’s time to clear out the clutter. Clear out the negative. You have enough people in life against you, don’t be against yourself. You were created in the image of almighty God. God doesn’t make any mistakes."- Joel Osteen